Trauma and
Growth Hub

For years, you've been told your trauma responses are a "disorder." That is a lie. They are a record of your resilience. This is our guide to understanding the science of your survival and the path to rewilding your own nervous system.

It Is Time to Honor Your Adaptations.

The traditional mental health system looks at a person who has survived a hostile environment and calls their adaptations a “disorder.” It pathologizes the very strategies that kept them alive. It is a profound act of clinical violence.

We reject this entirely.

Your hypervigilance, your anxiety, your numbness, your “overreactions”—these are not symptoms of your brokenness. They are the skills of a survivor. They are the brilliant, logical, and neurobiological adaptations of a nervous system that learned to navigate a world that was not safe.

This hub is our library of deconstruction and reclamation. It is a collection of our core manifestos and guides designed to help you understand the science of your own survival. Here, we don’t just “treat” trauma. We stand in awe of the resilience it took to get here, and we use the science of the nervous system to help you, the survivor, finally chart a path back to a feeling of safety in your own body.

It's Not "Just" a Bad Experience.
It's Trauma.

Our foundational manifesto on the real, biological definition of trauma. We deconstruct the gatekeeping myth of “big T” trauma and validate the profound impact of chronic invalidation and sensory overload.

Your Brain is a High-Fidelity Amplifier in a World That's Too Loud.

A deep dive into the science of a sensitive nervous system. We explain why a neurodivergent brain is more vulnerable to the traumatic impact of a loud, invalidating world.

Stop Talking About Your Trauma (Until Your Body is Ready).

The myth that you can “talk out” your trauma is not just wrong; it’s dangerous. This is our manifesto on the science of a “body-first” approach that prioritizes physiological safety over storytelling.

You Are Not Doomed to Repeat the Past. You Are Here to Remodel It.

A guide to the hopeful science of epigenetics. We explain how healing yourself is an active, biological process of remodeling that can change your family’s legacy for generations to come.

From the Archives:
Deeper Dives & Practical Guides

Healing is the Act of Reclaiming Your Own Biology.

 

The path to healing is not about erasing your past, but about understanding its imprint on your nervous system and intentionally building new pathways to safety.

First, do nothing.

Take one second. That’s all I’m asking.

Do not try to “calm down.” Do not try to “fix it.” Do not listen to the voice screaming that you need to do something right now.

Just be here, with me, for one single breath.

My name is Liz. I’ve spent years working overnight in the ER, sitting with people on what was often the worst night of their entire lives. I have sat in the eye of the hurricane, and I can tell you with absolute certainty that the chaos you feel right now is not the truth.

It is a storm in your nervous system. And a storm is just a weather pattern. It is not you. It is not permanent. And you do not have to navigate it alone.

Right now, your brain’s alarm system is screaming. The logical part of your brain has been taken offline. That is a normal, brilliant, biological survival response. But you and I are going to bring it back online, together.

We are going to do one, simple, physical thing. This is not a bulls*hit mindfulness exercise. This is a direct, manual override for your nervous system.

Place your hand on your chest.

Can you feel that? The rise and fall. The rhythm. That is the anchor. That is the proof that you are here, in this moment, and you are alive.

Keep your hand there.

Now, we are going to make one choice. The storm is telling you there are a million overwhelming things you have to do. That is a lie. There are only three choices right now, and you only need to pick one.

If you or someone else is in immediate, physical danger and you need help on site, right now:

This is the button you push when you need the paramedics or the police to show up. This is the “bring the fire truck” button.

If you are having thoughts of suicide and you need to talk or text with a human, right now:

This is the national, 24/7 lifeline. It is free, it is confidential, and it is staffed by trained counselors who are ready to listen without judgment. This is the “I need a lifeline” button.

If you are in St. Louis, you are not in crisis but you are in deep distress and need to talk to someone local:

Behavioral Health Response (BHR) is our community’s lifeline. They provide free, confidential telephone counseling and can connect you with local resources. This is the “I need a local guide” button.