Community and Support Hub

Your feelings are not a disorder.
They are a data stream.

Connection Isn’t a Luxury. It’s a Biological Mandate.

Healing happens in safe, authentic connection. The other hubs on this site are the library—the deep work of understanding your internal world. This Community Hub is the launchpad. It’s the “Now What?”

It’s the answer to the question, “Okay, I understand my brain now… where the f*ck do I find my people?”

This is not just another collection of our articles. It is a strategic toolkit of resources, allies, and guides designed to bridge the gap between self-knowledge and shared strength.

Our Community Manifestos

Building a better world isn’t just an abstract idea; it’s a series of practical, rebellious actions. Here are our core guides and manifestos on what it actually means to build and participate in a truly affirming community.

Beyond the Rainbow Sticker: What "LGBTQIA+ Affirming" Actually Means.

“Affirming” isn’t a buzzword. It’s a non-negotiable, anti-oppressive clinical stance. This is our manifesto on what it means to create a genuinely safe and celebratory space for the entire LGBTQIA+ community.

People Over Profit: A Brutally Honest Guide to Our Sliding Scale.

Financial accessibility is a cornerstone of community care. This is our radically transparent guide to our sliding scale and why we fight with insurance companies so you don’t have to.

You're Not Overreacting. You're Paying Attention.

The smallest and most important community is the one in your own home. This is our guide for partners on how to move from conflict to collaboration and get on the same team: Team Kid.

You Weren't "Resistant to Therapy." You Were Resistant to Bad Therapy.

Part of building a better community is helping people heal from the harm the old one caused. This is our case study on what happens when you finally get the right map and the right guide.

From the Archives:
Deeper Dives & Practical Guides

This is How the Rebellion Grows.

Community is not a passive thing. It is an active, ongoing process of building connections and sharing resources. If you are a clinician who shares our philosophy, we invite you to join the conversation.

First, do nothing.

Take one second. That’s all I’m asking.

Do not try to “calm down.” Do not try to “fix it.” Do not listen to the voice screaming that you need to do something right now.

Just be here, with me, for one single breath.

My name is Liz. I’ve spent years working overnight in the ER, sitting with people on what was often the worst night of their entire lives. I have sat in the eye of the hurricane, and I can tell you with absolute certainty that the chaos you feel right now is not the truth.

It is a storm in your nervous system. And a storm is just a weather pattern. It is not you. It is not permanent. And you do not have to navigate it alone.

Right now, your brain’s alarm system is screaming. The logical part of your brain has been taken offline. That is a normal, brilliant, biological survival response. But you and I are going to bring it back online, together.

We are going to do one, simple, physical thing. This is not a bulls*hit mindfulness exercise. This is a direct, manual override for your nervous system.

Place your hand on your chest.

Can you feel that? The rise and fall. The rhythm. That is the anchor. That is the proof that you are here, in this moment, and you are alive.

Keep your hand there.

Now, we are going to make one choice. The storm is telling you there are a million overwhelming things you have to do. That is a lie. There are only three choices right now, and you only need to pick one.

If you or someone else is in immediate, physical danger and you need help on site, right now:

This is the button you push when you need the paramedics or the police to show up. This is the “bring the fire truck” button.

If you are having thoughts of suicide and you need to talk or text with a human, right now:

This is the national, 24/7 lifeline. It is free, it is confidential, and it is staffed by trained counselors who are ready to listen without judgment. This is the “I need a lifeline” button.

If you are in St. Louis, you are not in crisis but you are in deep distress and need to talk to someone local:

Behavioral Health Response (BHR) is our community’s lifeline. They provide free, confidential telephone counseling and can connect you with local resources. This is the “I need a local guide” button.